Who Creates Your Reality?

Do you let other people push your buttons? Do you let other people annoy you to the point that you start to have a bad day? It’s not that they really annoy you – it’s actually you who is annoying yourself.

When your wife asks you a dozen times as to what time you will be home, she’s simply asking – it’s you who gets annoyed thinking that she is nagging. Or perhaps your husband tells you that he’ll be home late. He’s simply letting you know – it’s you who gets annoyed thinking that he just wants to hang late with the boys.

It’s always you who controls what annoys and irritates you; no one else. It’s your choice to allow someone to ‘push your buttons’. You allow yourself to be irritated by somebody who shouldn’t have that power. You let them take control, and steal that good mood from you.

When you let someone push your buttons, it’s because you choose to let them. It’s your choice that you let them control your mood. You have no one to blame but yourself. When you no longer allow anyone to snatch your happiness or joy from you, then you’re truly in control of your reality. You will begin to feel good and confident about yourself and your life.

Stay away from those who bring you down, and start to be happy on your own and with others who have good characteristics which you want to adopt.

6 thoughts on “Who Creates Your Reality?

  • November 5, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    Right! When you remove the bottons, there is nothing left to be pushed. Look within before you lash out. Thanks again Antonio. Jason Galbraith

  • November 7, 2009 at 11:06 am

    I totally agree with you Antonio, most people think that in order to be emotionally center people around us have to treat us the way we want.

    We can’t control how people treat us, we can only control how we feel internally about them.

    • November 12, 2009 at 9:45 am

      Hi Anthony,

      Thanks for stopping by the blog and leaving a comment on the “Who Creates Your Reality?” post. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts.

      As always, if there’s anything I can do, please let me know.

      Thanks again,


  • November 12, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    Just sharing a quote that supports this idea:
    “Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.” – Stephen Covey

    Great post!

  • November 24, 2009 at 4:57 am

    A boat will not sink unless water gets in it, same with people. We won’t get hurt or feel anything unless we allow ourselves to.Am I right?
    Thanks Antonio!

  • November 25, 2009 at 12:42 pm

    I’m living the law the more I live the law the more the people around seem to turn me away from it I have a teenager that does not follow the rules and a hot tempered husband how do I maintain my happiness in this situation?



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