One of the longest running debates is: ‘does size really matter?’
No! Not THAT debate… the debate about does the Universe distinguish between big and small things…. (get your mind out of the gutter) 🙂
Well, the truth of the matter is that the Universe supports you in what you do, say, think and believe. So if you think it’s ‘harder’ to manifest a million dollars than it is to manifest $1, then the Universe will support you in that.
For the Universe, everything is everything…nothing is big (or small) in the ‘eyes’ of the Universe. If you put the intention out and allow things to flow to you, the Universe provides, every time – without fail. The ONLY thing that keeps you from receiving the things you ask for is you. More specifically, your belief in having the things you ask for.
So if you don’t believe you can live in the million dollar home or deserve the wonderful mate or can be have a 100% healthy body or whatever…then you won’t.
Henry Ford said, “whether a man believes he can do a thing or not, he’s right..”
So, I’m I suggesting that you don’t “go for it all” and only focus on the ‘little’ things?
Not really, but kinda.
Let me explain:
Let’s say you’re making $50,000 per year now and your desire is to make 50 million. Instead of focusing on the $50M, you may want to consider focusing on doubling your income next year, then tripling it, and so on, up to the $50M. I say this because the jump from $50K to $50M is not only a huge financial jump, but it’s a QUANTUM paradigm leap – mentally. You have to ‘be’ a totally different person to attract $50M than you do to attract $50K. It’s not to say that you couldn’t do it, but they are two totally different people. And very few people have the ability to make such a huge paradigm shift.
Now let me be very clear on something. I will NEVER – EVER try to ‘steal your dreams’ and tell you that you can’t do it. I truly believe that you can do what ever you set your mind to do. However, when things don’t work out the way we like them to, we tend to get ‘disappointed’ and start doubting things…which can make the desires that much harder to achieve.
Consider this: You just started playing golf. You’ve never played before and you have no idea what you’re doing. Is it feasible to think that you’ll be able to beat Tiger Woods next week?
One of the things most people do after watching the Secret or learning about Law of Attraction is they run out and do vision boards with private jets, Maybachs, multi-million dollar homes, etc…These things are great, but if after a few months they don’t see these things manifesting, people become discouraged to the point of disbelief and some just give up.
One thing you have to keep in mind is that however old you are now…all the thoughts you had for the years leading up to now got to you to where you are – that’s doesn’t always change overnight. However, when we start with accomplishing ‘small’ things, we are encouraged, which raises our vibrations and helps bring our ‘big’ desires to us even faster. I talked about how I was able to manifest $100K in a week. But guess what, it wasn’t because I was focusing on the $100k, it was because I was focusing on $15k at the time and I totally blew the $15K out of the water and made almost 7 times what I intended.
Just like Richard Dreyfuss told Bill Murray in the movie What About Bob, take “baby steps”
Going back to the golf example: your initial focus should be on just hitting the ball without hurting yourself. Then on to hitting it straight, then far, etc. All the while, keeping the ‘bigger’ goal of beating Tiger Woods in the back of your mind, but focusing on the baby steps.
Though I’ve said it once, I want to be 100% clear here:
My intention is not to discourage anyone from going after their dreams…it’s quite the opposite. I encourage everyone to dream ‘big’, however I’ve found with the hundreds of people I’ve coached, that taking baby steps have not only helped to achieve their desires faster, but the multiple, continual ‘successes’ have done wonders for their self-esteem and self-confidence.
Now on the other hand, if you feel you have the ability to transform yourself into the person you need to be to attract the ‘big’ things you desire, then I say, “Go for it!”
My suggestion is to take the ‘big’ desires you have and break them down into smaller, bite-sized chunks. Focus on those consistent successes; and literally before you know it, you’d have hit your larger goals.
Yours in success.