I was in a sort of a funk today. Not feeling bad or sad or upset or even frustrated just feeling kind of blah. Not feeling great, but not feeling bad. So Nikki asked me if I wanted to go to Jason’s deli with her to grab a bite to eat and initially I didn’t want to go.

Mainly, because of how I was feeling, but I really wasn’t in the mood to go to Jason’s deli. However, I felt this nagging feeling that kept saying to me, go. At first, I just ignored it and went back to what I was doing but as I’m getting deeper and deeper into this teaching, I’m becoming a lot more sensitive to instinctive feelings. So as she was walking out the door, I decided to go with her.

I stopped what I was doing and went with her to Jason’s deli.

When we got there, there were a few people, quote unquote, causing trouble in the line by changing their order and being difficult, which didn’t make my mood any better.

But after we ordered our food and looked for a place to sit, Nikki chose a booth that was nearest the exit.

Immediately when I sat down I had a pretty cool feeling that came over me. Not sure how to describe the feeling, but it was definitely noticeable.

Something urged me to ask Nikki what the date was, and she told me it was the 19th.

It dawned upon me that 6 months ago, today, Nikki and I met for the first time.

Ironically, our first date was at the same Jason’s Deli, and we sat in the same booth.

How cool is that?

Well after we sat and thought about the 6 months we’d been together, I noticed I wasn’t in the funk I was in before.

How about that for raising your vibrations?

Practical Application

I’m still a BIG proponent of not doing the things that you don’t want to do or don’t bring you joy. However, follow that gut feeling you have about things. It could be the Universe telling you something.

I did something the other day that kinda offended someone I really care about.

Of course I didn’t do it on purpose, but it happened – and it had the effect that that it did, despite the intent.

She admitted she was somewhat upset about it, but said she was more confused about the whole thing and wanted clarity on why I did it.

Well, we talked about it and I had an opportunity to explain what happened. We squashed the whole thing in about 15 minutes.

WOW

The real beauty of the whole thing was that she was able to come to me and ‘talk about it’. She took responsibility for how she was feeling and address them head on. Not in an argumentative and belligerent kinda way… But in a “Hey, you did this thing and I think it stinks…” way.

And I thought it was TOTALLY cool.

I’d have to say it was an absolutely wonderful 15 minutes…minutes that I wouldn’t trade for anything. Yes, they were a little uncomfortable because no one likes to find out that they’d offended someone else, but the fact that we were able to just talk about it was HUGE.

To be able to have that type of conversation and end up closer at the end of it is truly magic.

I don’t care what you say…communication heals all.

If there are some ‘hanging’ conversations you need to have with your boss, your mate, your friend, or even yourself, go ahead and make them happen…

Visualize how you see the conversation going and what result you want to end up with and put the intention out that the conversation be for the greater good of all those involved. I’m sure you’ll be amazed at the results.
Peace