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Comment on Review: The Hidden Power, T. Troward by David Yonkin

David Yonkin — Thu, 13 Aug 2020 17:51:03 +0000

I’m seeking more detailed info on Daniel M. Murphy – about who he actually was, how/why he became involved with Troward’s works, etc.
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Comment on Yoosta' Was A Roosta' by Juliete

Juliete — Sat, 19 Dec 2015 21:44:03 +0000

In reply to Antonio Thornton. I've done that before, too. You are nomral. Not long ago, the Vice President of the United States tried to correct the spelling by a student at a school where he was visiting. Potato. He spelled it with an e, making it Potatoe. It happens. Thanks for the post. I love reading them.GrandBob

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Edward Boston

Edward Boston — Sun, 19 Feb 2012 17:38:03 +0000

Heys Antonio. I can totally understand how you feel. It’s all about the mindset, which is not an easy thing to change as it is a long term process. Our views and perceptions are built through our life experiences and growing environments which is something we cannot change. They say it takes at least 21 to change or kick a habit, which I believe is quite true. If changing a mindset doesn’t take up so much time, then the world would be perfectly peaceful because everyone can simply understand and agree with each other. In reality, there’re rebellions and protests everyday in the world because of differences in perceptions from our separate mindsets, especially when they conflict. It is a sad yet unchangeable fact.

I’m glad you are seriously enforcing this positive mindset on your children and even on yourself. Kudos to you! Yes, it is going to take quite a while to mould your mindset (probably at least 21 days? lols), and it will be a gruelling and challenging route to strive on, but it is worth every ounce of your dear effort. Keep this positive influence up, and I’m sure you and your children will find your success in life!

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Henry Klein

Henry Klein — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 12:11:03 +0000

Greetings Antonio! I like your rational and fair approach that you take towards your children. It is great to have people like you, Wilbur, Bethany to share the methods to positively influence our children. Parental guidance is not an easy thing. It’s a long term commitment, and often takes a toll on the parents, who usually end up resorting to violence to coerce their children to submit to them. My parents used to cane me for every little mistake that I make (sometimes it’s not even my fault), and this has built a lot of misunderstandings and strained my family bonds through the years. I’d prefer to have you as my good parent haha. Nevertheless, I still love my parents, and I try to be understanding many a times now that I’m grown, but I do hope you can remain as this positive influence no matter what obstacles challenge you. Good luck on building your blog!

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Ramon Holly

Ramon Holly — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 12:06:09 +0000

Heys Wilbur, my kids aren’t really rational when it comes to reasoning things out. They start throwing tantrums and basically we can’t communicate properly… That is why in my case, I’d have to insist on my way. I’ve already tried out the timeout strategy like Antonio, but it isn’t quite working for me. Even after I explain my whole rationale behind their punishments, they won’t even bother to listen. I let them voice out their opinions, but they hurl nonsense. I really want to resort to violence to physically restrain them, but I know that is just being inhumane. What do you think I should do? 

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Bethany Hudson

Bethany Hudson — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 02:08:21 +0000

Very well-said Wilbur! Well, my kids are naturally not that rebellious, so they follow my way of doing things after I’ve explained my rationale behind whatever I do. However, they usually do not have that many opinions to voice out, so sometimes I can’t really figure what they are thinking even though they appear to be obedient! This is probably due to the fact that I myself am a rather quiet person, and do not have much opinions to say myself either lol… They’re probably following my submissive behavorial ways, which is actually starting to worry me… Although being obedient is a good thing, they might just get “eaten up” in society…

I’m very sure Antonio has a good parent since his children obediently follow his orders. You see, even he himself follows his own punishments, so there’s practically no reason for his children to stir any trouble. But Antonio, I think we should starting asking our children for their opinions on our punishments. We wouldn’t want our kids to grow up to be overly submissive and suffer under the cruel hands of society.

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Shanna Thomas

Shanna Thomas — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:11:55 +0000

Great article!!

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Shanna Thomas

Shanna Thomas — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:10:41 +0000

Hi Antonio!!!
Good to see you are doing fine. I just got in touch with Lesia!! I’m glad you all remained friends through the years. It hurt me back then when we stopped communicating. However, life has a way of taking care of stuff, and here it is I am able to see you again. Hope you and your family are doing fine!! Much love,
Shanna

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Wilbur Shultz

Wilbur Shultz — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 12:09:12 +0000

Well Bethany, you and Antonio have been setting good examples for your kids, and I’m really glad they are picking your good points! As for nurturing them not to be too submissive, I think your suggestion of asking them to voice out their opinions is a pretty good influence, especially to be coupled with punishments like Antonio’s timeout.

That’s because this is what I personally do! I myself am a good debater, so I allow my children to have their say in every issue in the house, but they must be reasonable. And when they fail outtalk me, they will have to agree to follow my way. I usually reward them for being courageous enough to voice out all of their conflicting views and reasoning out nicely with me, and still willing to accept my way if they are unable to debate it out.

Antonio, I think you can try out my method since you have no trouble controlling your kids. You should let them have their say, and reward them for following your way. This way, you build a healthy, and engaging relationship with your children. Both parties can understand each other, and form strong bonds as a family!

Comment on I Got Put In Time Out Yesterday (New Year’s Insight 1 of 5) by Marsha Johnson

Marsha Johnson — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 13:53:54 +0000

That’s quite a strict, but effective way to set things right!
As a kid, I personally don’t enjoy being put in a timeout because I always think it is a complete waste of time. I’d rather spend the time doing something more practical and productive. Now I can understand that being in a timeout is not just a way to toss your precious time in vain, but rather to CLEARLY think about some things in life, which would have been otherwise impossible to focus in depth without forcing yourself to do nothing and stare in a corner. I wished my parents had implemented something like this on me instead, so I would have set my thoughts right without having to fall into the destructive path of oblivion to learn things the hard way. Seeing what you are doing here, I know I’ll never let myself live in regret or in vain again.

I agree with what Edward says though. It will take quite a long time to really set your thoughts right since they are already in built into our minds through the years. But when you are in a timeout, you will have to stop whatever you are doing, and force to think things straight. This mind-changing process can probably be accelerated if you keep this up.

Can’t wait to see your subsequent New Year insights!