Had a really interesting conversation with a young lady who was going through a situation and I told her “…everything was gonna be alright.”

She got upset with me.

I asked her why was she upset and she said, “because of your response…”

So, I asked her, “How were you expecting me to respond?” and she says, “Well when I tell most people what I just told you, they would say “I’m so sorry to hear that”, or something similar ”

So I asked her, “Does it make you feel better when people say that?

She says, “Well it makes me feel that people care.”

Geez.

So because I don’t feel “bad” about her situation, she assumes I don’t care???

I think we are programmed for misery and anytime something shows up differently, it doesn’t feel right.

And the real question to answer here is, “Should me feeling bad make you feel better about your situation??” I would hope not

When has someone feeling bad about something ever made, you feel good? I would assume never…unless your intention is to make them feel bad, and that’s the case, that’s another story.

The one thing you can always control in your life is the ability to change the way you feel about a situation. Though you may feel you can’t change the situation, you can choose to feel bad, or you can choose to feel good. And 9 times out of 10, feeling good will ‘change’ the situation.

Practical Application

Keep your vibrations up….no matter what. Don’t feel bad if someone else feels bad because it’s not going to make them feel better. The positive energy from YOU keeping your vibrations up will help them 100 times more than “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that…” or “I feel so bad for you..bla, bla, bla”

And the good news about that is that if it’s your fault, you can do something about it.

As long as you’re blaming your misery, frustrations, etc on your ex-wife, your ex-husband, Obama or whatever scapegoat of your choosing…you’ll remain helpless and be able to do nothing to make your life better.

Think about that for a moment.

Is there anything you’re blaming your situation on?

If so, stop and take responsibility for your life…

Because the more responsibility you take, the more control you have over your live and the better your life can be.

The key is to do this without judgment. Recognizing that your vibrational level has attracted the things that have shown up in your life… These things have shown up to teach you the lessons you needed to get you where you are now.

So, changing what you’re vibrating will attract different things.

Practical Application

Take an inventory of the things you may be blaming your situation on….STOP.

Recognize that you are the creator of your life and CHOOSE to create something differently.

Most people do not love their finances, because it’s in a negative state. Fall in love with money. Be clear about the amount of moolah you want to manifest. State it and mean it! It should not be how much you can earn, but how much you want to receive.

Money is magnetic energy. You are a magnet that attracts all things via the signal you emit through your thoughts and feelings. To become a powerful magnet of prosperity, fall in love with money and believe that you have what it takes to attract it.

Why People Hate Money

1. They don’t have enough of it
2. It’s hard to find and make
3. It’s associated as the source of all evil
4. The belief that they can’t be rich
5. The belief that it’s the only source of happiness

You may be thinking “Isn’t it true most people have very little or no funds at all?” If this is your B.S. (Belief System) this is the reason, why you haven’t fallen in love with money. You believe it’s not easily available to you.

There are people who mistreat, behave and talk bad about those who have large sums of dough in their possession. In doing so, the Law of Attraction is reversed and works against them causing them to lose out.

How to Fall In Love with Money

1. Be clear about the amount you want to manifest
2. Believe that you have what it takes to attract it
3. Know it’s needed to live a fulfilling life
4. Understand that it’s a good thing
5. Remember there’s an unlimited amount available to you

Money is used to accomplish a lot of things both good and bad; therefore it is upon you to decide what you intend to do with it once you have it.

Most people limit themselves as far as how much capital they would like to have. It should not always be about how much you can make but rather how much you want. And there is no limit to what you can achieve as long as you know how to manifest money.

Learn more on how to manifest limitless sums of money with practical and easy applications. Go to: Manifest Money Now!!

This reminds me of all the excitement that everyone feels on the eve of each New Year.  Wishes for a Blessed New Year; A Prosperous Year and great spirits everywhere.

What makes us feel this way? What is different or special about another New Year?  I believe it is “Hope”. Hope to start all over again, hope for a chance to make changes. The first few days there are many resolutions made and moral is high. But as the weeks pass so does the enthusiasm.

Do we have to wait for a whole year to get motivated and make resolutions? Of course not!

Everyday is Unique

Do we have to wait for a New Year to feel like a fresh start is possible?  Does not every new day give us an opportunity for a new beginning? Yesterday is gone, today is what you have. You may have made mistakes but they are behind you; today you have an opportunity to make good the losses. Yesterday is lost but right now is yours.

Here are some pointers that will help you make each day a great day:

• Be thankful for TODAY! You are alive.
• Decide and tell yourself “I will have a great day today!”
• Treat each day as a NEW DAY with the possibilities of good things.
• Begin each day with a plan and purpose.
• Every day will have its challenges; treat them as opportunities for growth
• At the end of each day spend time to asses where you went wrong and what you can do to improve your tomorrow.
• Congratulate yourself on your achievements
• Dream and expect a GREAT DAY TOMORROW!

What makes your day great?

As soon as we say “great day” we picture a day where everything goes smoothly, there are no oppositions, no failures.  But in real life, each day may have its own set of surprises. This is not a “bad” thing. How we label each situation, “good” or “bad”, depends on our perception of these events. One person can have a hard day and go to bed exhausted but they feel a sense of accomplishment. On the other hand a person could have had just a small hurdle, such as a traffic jam causing them to be late to work, and moan the whole day long and spoil what could have been a great day.

How do you view life?

What does success mean to you?  Is it luxury, fame, power or just having a simple or quiet life? No matter what it may be that brings you joy, it’s not having any, which will leave your day empty and full of sadness.

Choose to make each day a great day and it will result not only in a successful day but a more rewarding and successful life!

What Are You Thinking?

When you ask or wish for more money, are you focusing on being wealthy now? Are you happy just imagining the wealth that is yours? Or, are you focusing on the gap between where you are and where you want to be? If you’re thinking about the latter, then you may be feeling sadness or frustration thinking about the wealth you don’t have. When you feel sad or frustrated it brings your vibration down and you are not going to get what you desire. The goal is to bring your vibration up with positive thinking.

So now you may be wondering, “How can I live and think as if I am rich, when I ‘m constantly reminded of the many things I can’t have?”

This is the beauty of using the Law of Attraction, all you need to do is make a small shift in your attitude about money. This will make a huge difference in your economic future. Many people live in a pattern that makes it impossible for them to acquire wealth – no matter how much they want it.

Always Be Aware of Your Thoughts

When you are at a store and you see something you want, is your first thought, “I wish I could afford that, but I can’t.”? If so, this is producing the feeling of lacking wealth, therefore creating that negative reality. I want you to replace that thought with, “I can’t wait to have that!” or “Won’t it be great when I have that!” This will create a positive, happy feeling and subsequently alter your reality for the better.

These and many other positive thoughts will put you in alignment with having the things you want. This is an instance of living the Law of Attraction that will move you closer to the wealth you desire.

Practical Application

• Be aware of your thoughts and take control of them.
• Positive thinking is the key to attracting wealth.
• Positive thoughts in all situations brings your vibration up and puts you more in line with the things you want.
• Remember your thoughts will become your reality!

Here though… I want to talk about the beliefs that are deep rooted… the ones that pop up and surprise us. Even myself, I was brought up in a primarily Christian home, and I still have a lot of Christian beliefs, (and I have to emphasize and specify that I have a lot of limiting Christian beliefs) that still pop up every now and then. I’m not saying that Christianity is a limiting religion. We’ll leave that for a whole other discussion.

But there are a lot of interpretations of various aspects of the Christian religion that I do feel can limit a person. I know that I can say it has limited me. As I said, a lot of these beliefs will resurface every now and then, and I have to catch myself and say, “Oh my gosh, that’s not what I want to create for myself. Yes, I was taught that when I was younger. But wow, that is not what I want to create for myself. I want to create ____.” And I shift my focus to that.
Again, this is someone who’s done 20 years of this type of work, not only on myself, but I’ve been teaching others as well. I still have belief systems that are just latent, that just come blasting out every now and then. It just kind of throws me for a loop.

It is these latent beliefs that we have to catch on change. Catching it once is not going to be enough. This is a process that we have to work on a daily basis, putting the positive influence there. Realizing that our old way of thinking can still creep in and throw off all of the good, new, positive work we have been doing on ourselves.

Anyway, I just want you to walk away from reading this post and not be discouraged, and not be frustrated, but actually be encouraged to know that you can make any shift you want. You can make any change and shift your paradigm to anything you want. The thing that I want to put out here as a suggestion, as a recommendation of making this process easier for you, is to not expect it overnight. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself grace and recognize that just because you watched the secret last week or last month or even last year doesn’t mean that you’re going to be a millionaire this year. It doesn’t mean that you’re going to have all of these things just showing up.

Now things will start happening quickly because there may be some areas that you were able to shift very, very quickly. But in those other areas that may be a little more deeply-rooted than others, give yourself grace. Be kind to yourself and love yourself. Give yourself the time that you may need to shift from one place to another. This will benefit you on so many levels.

What I mean to say is that it took you time to develop the belief system you currently have… so it only stands to reason that it is going to take some time for you to change that belief system. I’m not suggesting that it’s not possible for a person to change “overnight” but it is highly unlikely.

I think we put enough pressure on ourselves as it is, and when you put this type of pressure on yourself where you are saying, “Well, I’ve read this book on Friday, and now it’s Sunday, why am I not a millionaire?

Why am I not attracting all the wealth and abundance that this book said I would?” You’re putting more pressure on yourself than necessary, and really what is happening then is the opposite of what you want to happen.

Unnecessary Pressure Can Negatively Impact Achieving Your Goals

You’re putting stress on yourself, you’re putting pressure on yourself, and you’re setting an expectation for yourself that is highly unlikely. Not that it’s impossible, but it’s highly unlikely that your goal or the change that you want to take place will actually be accomplished in that short a period of time.

Again, I just want to emphasize here. I would never tell anyone, “You can’t do something.” I would never tell someone, “This will never happen.” Because I believe that if you believe that thing on every level, with every fiber of your body, you will create that situation for your life.

But what I do want to say here is really take into consideration the fact that when you were two, three, four, five, six years old, seven years old, those are the absolute, most impressionable ages in anyone’s life.

How Your Brain Processes Information

Your brain is like just a sponge, just taking in information. Not only does it just take in every bit of information that it gets, it also takes it on as the truth. It’s actually taking that information on as this-is-the-way-things-are. Because of that, it starts to build a belief system. It starts to actually mold your paradigm that you will potentially live into.

Of course, again, that paradigm can shift at any given time. But if you’re 25 years old, and you’ve learned something at five years old, particularly, if that thing was reinforced at five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, 11, 12, 20 and still 25.

I mean, if you think about the fact that something may have been taught to you and reinforced in your life for 20-some, 30-some, 40-some years, the likelihood of that belief system going away overnight, again, is very, very low.

The point is that if you truly want to change your belief system and create the life you want you have to stop the insanity and give yourself time. Be persistent and consistent in your efforts and you will see the rewards before you know it.

My answer is no…and yes.

The reason why I say that is because I want to make sure that people have an understanding of the basic principles of the law of attraction.

The Law Of Attraction, though it’s somewhat of an esoteric type of teaching, it is an active law, meaning there is some activity (action) that is required to “activate” the law.

Unlike the law of gravity that is more of a passive type law, meaning you don’t really have to do anything to take advantage of the law of gravity. You can just sit there, you won’t magically start floating away. You just sit there and you are impacted by the law of gravity. The law of attraction isn’t the same

Though your thoughts may not seem to be a physical action, thinking is something that is “active” in the whole scheme of things.

You do have to actively desire something for that thing to show up for you. Additionally, once something shows up in your life, you have to receive it…and receiving is an active process. It’s an activity.

Hypothetically, if you are trying to use the law of attraction to win the lottery, you still have to go down to the store…buy the ticket, fill it out, then concentrate and focus on winning that lottery. And even if you won you still have to physically go down to the lottery office to claim your prize.

The law of attraction is an active type law.

I’ve said on multiple occasions, just looking at the word ‘attraction’, if you took out the word ‘action’, all you’re left with is ‘attr’ which means nothing, which is what you get if you don’t actively pursue the things you do desire.

Now, what does this have to do with losing weight or fixing your credit? Why did I answer the question initially no and yes? Because yes, you can use the law of attraction, but only as a “mechanism” to attract the things necessary to facilitate you losing weight.

What I mean by that is this: if you want to lose weight, and you think about losing weight, you visualize losing weight, you concentrate on and put time your thoughts and beliefs on losing weight, then what will happen (through the law of attraction) is you will begin to attract the information, the resources, the people, the tools and the necessary things to help facilitate you losing weight.

I do NOT believe that by just visualizing losing weight, the weight will just start melting away.
I do not believe that if you wanted to fix your credit, you can just think about your credit going up and then magically your credit score goes up.

I think what happens is when you focus on your credit being improved, you may find that there is some company that overlooked something that you paid off, that was not showing up on your report, and for some reason you didn’t see it before. Even if it’s not something that you DID…maybe focusing on improving your credit may initiate the process of some other company saying “Hey, we made a mistake on your credit report. We’re going to switch this and it’s going to improve your score”

So, do I feel that you can just sit there think about losing weight, think about winning the lottery, think about improving your credit or something of that nature and it just magically happens? No. I

really don’t believe that because the law of attraction is not a magic genie in a bottle. It’s a natural law that has specific conditions to actually work. This is not to say that the law of attraction does not work, it is mainly to say that the law of attraction is not a magic trick. It’s a principle that works through the avenues that it does in a natural environment that we live in.

Practical Application
Don’t expect things to just ‘happen’. Everything requires some type of action. Even if its merely desiring what you want and allowing it to come into your life – these are still actions!

When opportunity comes to you in the form of coincidences, you have to act on them to create the things you desire. You have to take advantage of the “coincidences” when you attract them.

Those of you who are familiar with the basic principles of the Law of Attraction know that putting attention on a lack of money will only lead to greater lack. You must focus on prosperity if that’s what you want to manifest in your life.

However, a lot of people ask me, “How can I focus my attention on wealth, when I’m bombarded with news of the serious economic problems in the world right now?”

My first answer to that is: Stop doing that!

What do I mean??? Stop subjecting yourself to the bombardment of doom and gloom.

• Stop watching the negative news
• Stop reading the negative articles in the paper
• Stop hanging out with negative people who talk about doom and gloom
• And more importantly, YOU must stop talking, thinking, and worrying about it.

People see their 401k funds getting smaller, hear about more home foreclosures, and see the jobless rate continue to increase. “This is the reality I live in,” they will say, “…so how can I possibly bring wealth into my life during these times?”

My answer: Choose to!

Think about this: just as a booming economy does not guarantee you will be wealthy, a so-called “recession” does not mean that you cannot thrive financially. Let me assure you that your prosperity is entirely in your control – always!

Yes, it’s more difficult to keep your attention on wealth when others seem so intent on focusing on scarcity. But if your positive outlook depends on the “collective reality” of other people, you can never become the master of your life.

Think of this as a time of great opportunity! You might have been doing well when the stock market was booming, but maybe you were only “going along for the ride”. Were you creating your reality through your own intention, or were you simply following the will of others?

Now you know that if want a prosperous future, you must create it yourself. See this as the moment you once and for all declare your independence and seize control of your life.

Again, stop watching the news! You’re now being inundated with stories about the state of the economy. Watch a nature program to remind you of the world’s beauty, or a comedy that makes you laugh. This will put you in a positive state of mind.

When you can’t avoid hearing negative news, remind yourself that this simply serves to provide you with contrast. Let it point you in the direction of what you do want, and put your undivided attention on prosperity.

Think of all the good things you have in your life now. Look at the beautiful world that surrounds you. Feel grateful for this. Then think of the happy, prosperous future that awaits you. That future is actually here already – it’s just waiting for you to decide it belongs to you.

Practical Application
Take control of your life… you’re not subject to the whims of any economic situation until you allow yourself to be. Great economic times won’t guarantee your success, just as “rough” economic times don’t guarantee your economic failure.

YOU get to choose.

So choose!

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