Using The Law Of Attraction to "Feel Better"?

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Had a really interesting conversation with a young lady who was going through a situation and I told her “…everything was gonna be alright.”

She got upset with me.

I asked her why was she upset and she said, “because of your response…”

So, I asked her, “How were you expecting me to respond?” and she says, “Well when I tell most people what I just told you, they would say “I’m so sorry to hear that”, or something similar ”

So I asked her, “Does it make you feel better when people say that?

She says, “Well it makes me feel that people care.”

Geez.

So because I don’t feel “bad” about her situation, she assumes I don’t care???

I think we are programmed for misery and anytime something shows up differently, it doesn’t feel right.

And the real question to answer here is, “Should me feeling bad make you feel better about your situation??” I would hope not

When has someone feeling bad about something ever made, you feel good? I would assume never…unless your intention is to make them feel bad, and that’s the case, that’s another story.

The one thing you can always control in your life is the ability to change the way you feel about a situation. Though you may feel you can’t change the situation, you can choose to feel bad, or you can choose to feel good. And 9 times out of 10, feeling good will ‘change’ the situation.

Practical Application

Keep your vibrations up….no matter what. Don’t feel bad if someone else feels bad because it’s not going to make them feel better. The positive energy from YOU keeping your vibrations up will help them 100 times more than “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that…” or “I feel so bad for you..bla, bla, bla”

9 thoughts on “Using The Law Of Attraction to "Feel Better"?

  • April 22, 2010 at 2:09 am
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    I loved this post. The old adage of “Misery Loves Company,” doesn’t really hold true. While people might think they’ll feel better if you wallow with them in their time of sorrow or need – they won’t and definitely you won’t. Negative energy begets negative energy. If you stay positive then at least there’s a fighting chance for the situation to reverse itself.

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  • April 22, 2010 at 8:24 pm
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    Hi Antonio,

    Love your message of take responsibility for your life. And your story about the repo was powerful. Our attitude makes the difference.

    Namaste,

    Linda

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  • April 24, 2010 at 5:47 am
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    Uncle,your always great

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  • May 4, 2010 at 1:49 pm
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    Hi Antonio,

    Thanks for the post.

    You make a great point. You don’t help her (or you) by feeling bad about her situation. But you can possibly uplift her by staying positive.

    It’s interesting how we go through “battles” every day where we have to maintain our positive vibration instead of allowing ourselves to match somebody who is sending out a negative vibration.

    Good job for holding your ground!

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  • May 29, 2010 at 11:37 am
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    Hi Antonio!

    Congr. for you blog; I love it…

    I have one curiosity: what do you think of reality transurfing?

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  • June 29, 2010 at 12:48 pm
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    Excellent point you’ve made. We all have the choice whether to feel good or bad at any point in life and with any situation. Just because she chose to feel bad doesn’t mean you have to choose the same.

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  • July 28, 2010 at 1:18 am
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    Awesome post Antonio! Wow, I also appreciate your readers sharing their thoughts on this as well.

    My intention is to live more in the moment, look for and find all the good in this moment ~ there is always something good.

    Many find it difficult to understand how our unconscious programmed thoughts/mind trump can trump our conscious wants/desires.

    However, my “intention” is to – emmerce myself in positive, like minded thoughts and consistently find the good in all moments. It is my belief that this kind of process will help us to modify our unconscious/life experience programming into programming that is more in step with our conscious desires/wants/beliefs!

    Thank you…
    Namaste,
    George

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  • September 10, 2010 at 11:16 pm
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    I once heard Anthony Robbins refer to those people as crazy eights. Those people that are somehow stuck between depression and anger. Going back and forth in an almost figure eight of emotions never reaching for a better feeling thought above anger and then sliding back down into depression. I do believe anger is reaching for a better feeling thought but you can not stop there. You have to keep reaching for what feels better. In the end this person has chosen to play a difficult game and they will view it as fun. The only question is do they take the expansion now or after this life is over. Thank you for sharing this story.

    Blessings
    Aspen
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