Be Careful What You Say About New Year's Resolutions…

It’s still early into the New Year but already people have given up on the New Year’s resolutions. I hope you’re not one of them. If you are don’t worry there’s still plenty of time to get back on track you just have to Read more

Open Up, Release & Forgive

We all wish that we could have a smooth life with loved ones around, good financial security and of course good health? However, sometimes we attract unpleasant people and situations into our lives.

One of the most demoralizing and emotionally crippling one is when Read more

Change, A Sure Sign Of Growth?

Do you ever assess your life? Do you ever wonder if you are making any progress?

To Change Or Not To Change?

To know the answer all you have to do is look for changes in you. Has there been a change in your thinking; in your life style? If yes, then you have grown and if not, then Read more

You Shouldn't Be Offended By This!

If somebody says something about you that you know in your heart is not true, you would probably just laugh and not be bothered by it. But what if somebody says something about you that may actually be true? Such as mentioning that you are a lazy, or messy? Do you get mad? Do you get offended? Or do you simply smile and forget about it? Read more

Is It Really Safe To Assume?

As a child you may have wanted a toy in the store but didn’t tell your parents because you knew they wouldn’t buy it. Or perhaps when you were in high school, you liked someone but didn’t tell them your feelings since you knew you would be rejected. How could you have possibly known those things?

You didn’t, you simply assumed.

What’s Wrong With Assuming?

Simple, assumptions are not always true. They are only what you Read more

Who Creates Your Reality?

Do you let other people push your buttons? Do you let other people annoy you to the point that you start to have a bad day? It’s not that they really annoy you – it’s actually you who is annoying yourself.

When your wife asks you a dozen times as to what time you will be home, she’s simply asking – it’s you who gets annoyed thinking that she is nagging. Or perhaps your husband tells you that he’ll be home late. He’s simply letting you know – it’s you who gets annoyed thinking that he just wants to hang late with the boys.

It’s always you who controls what annoys and irritates you; no one else. It’s your choice to allow someone to ‘push your buttons’. You allow yourself to be irritated by somebody who shouldn’t have that power. You let them take control, and steal that good mood from you.

When you let someone push your buttons, it’s because you choose to let them. It’s your choice that you let them control your mood. You have no one to blame but yourself. When you no longer allow anyone to snatch your happiness or joy from you, then you’re truly in control of your reality. You will begin to feel good and confident about yourself and your life.

Stay away from those who bring you down, and start to be happy on your own and with others who have good characteristics which you want to adopt.