You can learn a lot about someone based on their conversation. I was in Wal-Mart the other day, just running around with Aria. A lady walked by talking to another lady and chuckled, “I love to see when dads suffer for a change.”
I was running behind Aria, keeping her from puling things from the shelves, pushing the shopping cart and talking on the phone simultaneously but I would not come anywhere near calling it suffering. I was actually having a good time.
I would say with 99.9% certainty that this woman lives what “I” would consider a miserable life.
Because people talk about what they’re thinking about…or what their perception of things are.
You’ve heard the phrase, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” It’s so true. It’s all about perception.
She saw what I was going through as ‘suffering’ because SHE would have felt that way about HER experience.
What are some of the things you think about and talk about that you’re imposing ‘suffering’ on yourself.
Do you plop down on the couch after work and say, “I’m dead tired!” ?
When you’re feeling ill, do you declare, “I’m as sick as a dog!” ?
There are tons of phrases we use freely that impose suffering on ourselves.
Be aware of the things you’re saying about yourself and others. Make sure they’re the phrases that are attractin what you want and not what you don’t want.